People
can easily remember a formula.
People
can repeat a formula.
And if
your formula is good enough, a company may adopt it and make it a part of their
culture.
Because
I like formulas and diagrams so much, let me lay out the simple recipe for you
here. It has three components:
1. Opening Story
2. Three-Point Formula
3. Closing Story
Your opening story leads to your three-point formula, which leads to
your closing story. Let’s take a closer look:
Your Opening
Story
If you
blow your opening, you will spend the large majority of your speech trying to
win the audience back.
Launching
right into your presentation is the best way to engage the audience quickly. I
open my presentations for professional speakers with an imagination sequence
that has them earning £10,000 per speech and having limousines whisking them
away to the airport after the gig. I do all of this to:
•
Get people engaged and be present with me in the room
— not on their phones;
•
Show them that I know them;
•
Make it about them and not me; and
•
Get them participating with me so that they know this
will not be “lecture” style, that it will be highly interactive.
Your
opening needs to do the following three things:
1
Get the audience’s attention; make them put the
handheld devices down.
2
Preview the theme of your presentation (again, topic
is the subject, the theme is your unique approach to that subject).
3
Allow the audience to peek behind the curtain to see
who you are (what your values are, etc.).
Many
people open with humour. If you have a funny story that could tee up your key
theme, then that might be gold.
Points #1, #2,
#3
After
your opening story, you want to move into the three points discussed earlier.
There’s an old saying, “Tell them what you’re going to tell them, then tell
them, then tell them what you told them again.”
After
your opening, you might offer up your agenda and say, “we’re going to cover
three things today, a, b, and c.” Then you go on to tell them a, b, and c,
using terrific stories to illustrate each. Then at the end you would again say,
“Today we’ve talked about a, b, and c… and in conclusion.” Now I don’t
recommend that you sound that canned or formal. Hopefully you get the idea.
Your Closing
Story
Many
speakers fail to deliver a powerful closing story, and their speech simply
leaves the audience hanging.
Your
closing story should wrap up all of the information that you shared into a
nice, neat bow. A really great closing story pulls people out of their chairs
and into action. And perhaps while they’re standing, they offer you up an
ovation.
How to Close
Your Talk
As we
know, storytelling is the key ingredient to connecting with your audience. It
is with a strongly told story that your audience will relate your message to
their own life and connect with it emotionally.
With
emotion, your audience will see the answer to their struggle, their challenge,
and their obstacle. By using a story at the end of your presentation, you
remind your audience that you are similar to them and that you too have overcome
challenges and obstacles to get to where you are.
There is
a saying that goes like this: “Don’t put yourself on a pedestal, put the
process.” It is this process that your audience will follow to reach their own
success. Here is a format for you to use as you prepare your closing with a
story:
1
Choose a story that connects directly to your message.
This is not the time to “throw in a story.” This story needs to recap the
points from your speech.
2
Keep this story succinct and structured, this is not
the time to go off into tangents. This is your key moment, the moment that will
either connect your audience with you are leave your audience putting yet
another learning experience on a dusty shelf.
3
Keep it simple. It is very difficult to listen to a
story that is not clear and to the point. Your audience becomes restless,
begins to plan where they need to be after your speech ends, and starts
watching the clock.
Storytelling
can be the emotional connection to any audience. Remember to use “you” focused
questions within your story. Remember to practice your closing story so that it
is succinct and solid. And, finally, remember to keep that story authentic.
Pick a story that is close to your heart and sums up your message. You are
bound to leave your audience wanting more, more of you and more of your
message. If you accomplish this, congratulations, you have done your job.
Let me
know how your next presentation goes.
That is
all –
David
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