Making The Shift
One of the toughest tasks
while facing a crisis or a painful change is what I call “Making the Shift”.
The “shift” centres around
two different people having opposite views of what stands in front of them. One
person may view a particular situation as a problem, while the other views it
as a challenge. The boldest people view the challenge as an opportunity. These
are the people who “live to win”.
When people view their
situation as a problem, they often become paralysed in their efforts to move
forward.
Words commonly associated
with problems are: dilemma, anxiety, fear, worry, trouble, threat.
It is imperative that a
shift be made and that a person’s thought processes or beliefs convert to
thinking of a problem as a challenge.
When someone is able to
overcome the fear associated with a problem and views that dilemma as a challenge,
his overall belief system allows him to take action.
When this shift occurs and
the “problem” is now viewed as a “challenge,” he has an instant ability to
start moving forward and overcoming the dilemma.
This is commonly referred
to as “taking action”. The pattern of thought now moves from one of fear to one
of daring. When a situation is viewed as a challenge, the end result now
becomes clearer, with a vision of the desired result.
Words associated with
challenge include: overcome, win, test, defy. People respond more assertively
when viewing a situation as a “challenge,” as opposed to viewing it as a
“problem”.
The final, most exciting
part of this shift is when a problem is viewed as an opportunity.
The end result of
opportunity is limitless. Opportunity brings: progress, happiness, advancement,
and eventual fortune.
A classic example of “The
Shift”:
I have a dear friend who I
have known for almost my entire lifetime. This gentleman had an amazing career
as an independent floor trader in the commodity business. For several years, he
had income well in excess of seven figures.
Unfortunately, for him, he
had a significant problem. His problem stemmed from his abuse of alcohol. This
problem eventually took him and his empire down to its knees.
He came to me with his
“problem,” and we quickly agreed that massive action needed to be taken.
When he finally
acknowledged that having a problem was causing him to be “stuck,” and was
preventing his ability to move forward, he bought into the idea of viewing his
“problem” as a “challenge”.
His “challenge” was dealing
with his battle with alcoholism and getting his life under control.
To my friend’s credit, he
checked himself into a facility that would give him the best chance to win his
battle. After several weeks, he was released and continued his challenge with
rebuilding his life and dealing with his day-to-day “challenge” of becoming a
recovering alcoholic. Because of his strong will and determination, he is now
ten years sober. I’m so proud of him – but that is not the end of the story.
My friend decided that the
“challenge “was only his beginning. He has now made the massive shift from
“problem” to that of “opportunity”. You see, within his world of pain, were
many others with the same “problem”. My friend has now leveraged the contacts
that he made in his new community of recovered addicts and built a large
business in the insurance field. He is clearly in the business of helping
people in life–and in business–while enjoying his rise back to the top.
The Shift
PROBLEM —— CHALLENGE —— OPPORTUNITY
I hope you found this
information helpful. Let me know how you apply this.
Just one more thing before
you go … I’d like to ask you to do one important thing for me – spread the word about this
article.
That is all -
David
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